I’m Kylie, the Heart Centred Coach, here to support open hearted Parents & Teachers to better understand neurodiverse children so they can truly thrive. It can be really challenging living and working with these children. I am passionate about helping you to navigate this path and create rich and heart-centred connections.
I help you to create a #calmhappyhomelife or #calmhappyclassroom.
Understand that your child's behaviour is how they communicating a need/needs
You know your child/ children better than anyone
Recognise when you are judging yourself to return to presence
Know your limiting beliefs and navigate your way through
See that your child has their own sacred journey in life
Accept and support your child as they are and they will thrive
Truly hear your children with Compassionate Listening
Learning from our children creates space for us to grow too
Kylie is a Certified Parent Coach and Teacher Well Being Coach, focused on helping children to be understood and valued.
I always felt incredibly loved and supported as a child, leaving home and going out into the world – I was shocked to see how unsupportive some people could be! I felt inspired to really create the best environment that I could at home.
Having one child with ASD and one with Dyslexia I remember I used to feel like I was being judged by others for how my children behaved. Sometimes we are just too close to see what’s really happening in our own families. We all know the behaviour our children exhibit when they need something but sometimes… we don’t know what to do.
I wondered what I was doing wrong as a parent? Why was our son behaving the way he was and why there was so much difficulty? I studied ‘Conscious Parenting’ and realised there was more to our situation than I could perceive at the time.
My Son was diagnosed with autism and we have come so far now learning how to support him. Our family have more tolerance towards each other, we can now see that each person in our home has a unique voice. We are able to see each other’s point of view and have a far more colourful way of seeing the world, accepting everyone's perspective as valid. In our case (Like any other family), we still have moments of madness (we are human after all), yet we are all far more forgiving and accepting of each other.
I'm much more of a stress-less mum and kinder human being on this planet, because I now come from a place of joy with my family. I now help support other Parents and Teachers who are experiencing blame, shame and guilt about their child's/ students behaviour and help them create the awareness to create truly nourishing environment at home and school.
If you want to find out how to discern your children’s need and accommodate them in a way that supports you too, I offer heart-centred parent coaching. My clients tell me that they get to a place where they can see where their children are coming from. In doing so they enjoy the time they spend with their children without conflict in a calmer, smoother and more supportive way.
So, if you find yourself:
💗 In emotional chaos
💗 Always putting others ahead of yourself
💗 Not understanding your child’s behaviour
I can show you how to:
💗 How to Self Love and gain self-acceptance as a Parent
💗 The tools to becoming a ‘needs detective’ to find out what the messages are beyond the behaviour.
💗 Tune inwards to find solace and emotional intelligence
I’m here to help you to create the best family environment possible:
Our biggest desire is to give our kids the best chance to thrive and make the most of life – And we know that begins at home. We want to take the best from our upbringing and add what we know is most important to us in life! I help you to create a #calmhappyhomelife
I advocate for parents to:
💗 Understand that your child's behaviour is not the thing to focus on, their behaviour is communicating a need/needs
💗 Trust that you know your children better than anyone
💗 Recognise when you are judging yourself, you see more as your awareness grows
💗 Acknowledge your limiting beliefs and shift them as they arise.
💗 See that your child has their own journey, that you can't control them - that they are who they inherently are.
💗 Accept and support your child as they are so they can thrive
💗 Truly hear your children (Compassionate Listening)
💗 Learn that they create space for you to learn who you are too.
I love helping parents to have a calmer, happier homelife, where you and your kids listen to each other, where there is more cooperation, you feel energised to spend time with your kids and know how to help them gain resilience, i have a particular alignment to families who have at least one 'Out of the Box' thinker...
I WOULD LOVE TO HELP YOU GAIN A DEEPER CONNECTION WITH YOUR CHILDREN
A Discovery session is a call where together we discover what your biggest parenting challenges are and discuss how I can best support you… I am non judgemental and a compassionate listener.
During our sessions you will discover that I am present, empathetic and engaged.
I'm a naturally optimistic person, who is really empathetic. I'm also a parent of three children and I wondered...
"What is happening with my children?", "Why aren’t I getting any cooperation?", "Is it what I'm doing ?"
I quickly realised that it wasn't only me asking these questions, lots of my clients had these thoughts too... and there's a chance you are as well... two of our three children have learning differences, so I understand the challenges of living with neurodiverse and neurotypical children.
The act of parenting is a huge passion of mine, especially because I am parenting two neurodiverse kids and one neurotypical... when i trained to become a parent coach I learnt about understanding children from inside their world and how this is paramount to the connection between the parent and child.
It fills me with so much joy to be able to offer support to parents of the world. Especially those who are also parenting children with learning differences, I believe that parenting is a journey that desperately lacks support and I promise to support you to become the most compassionate parent you can be and to help you find the joy in it!
"My biggest goal is to enable cultural change in the world in how people value children and value parenting. I want to see parenting viewed as a valued skill."
I truly believe the world needs less hate and more compassion and as parents we can model these values and nurture them in our children.
“Parenting nowadays can be confusing and exhausting, even when you feel you are doing okay there’s very little support out there for you as a parent whatever age or development stage your child/children are currently at.
Is there a better way to get out the door in the morning? Am I okay at this? Why is my child behaving in this way?
That’s where Kylie the Heart Centred Coach comes in, through her 10-week coaching course tailored to your unique needs and circumstances, you will learn a new way of parenting and way of being with your children that is incredibly positive and transformational.
Kylie’s compassionate and nurturing style will allow you to gain new insights about yourself and your relationships with your child/children. We’ve found the 10-week course has led to subtle but powerful shifts in, not only how we parent, but also how we communicate with each other and within our work places and wider networks.
It has led to deeper, more loving connections with our children and with each other. 10-weeks is not a huge investment for a job as important and rewarding as being the best parent you can be.
Make this investment in your children, your family and most of all your-self – we’ve discovered a much more relaxed, tranquil and fun-filled family life has come out of doing this course.
We completely and whole-heartedly recommend Kylie and the Heart Centred parenting courses to you.” - Aimee, Taupo
“Family life is much more spontaneous – there’s much more fun, discovery and play in our daily life.” - J.S, NZ
A big breakthrough has been pausing and listening to our child’s expression of their needs – and also our own.” - N.C, NZ