1) Who is this about?

Is this about me? 

or my child?


2) What am I seeing?

Lack or 



3) How am I owning this?

Acknowledging I have to work my own feelings/emotions? or

Dumping it on my child?


4) Am I BE-ing or Do-ing?

Am I

A human BEing or

A human DOing


5) Where am i?

Am I in the past, present or future - What timezone am I in?