Kia Ora, I'm Kylie a Certified Parent Coach, and Teacher Wellbeing Coach. I am also mum of three, I'm hugely passionate about children, families and teachers…

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I always felt incredibly loved and supported as a child, leaving home and going out into the world – I was shocked to see how unsupportive some people could be! I felt inspired to really create the best environment that I could at home.

Having one child with ASD and one with Dyslexia I remember I used to feel like I was being judged by others for how my children behaved. Sometimes we are just too close to see what’s really happening in our own families. We all know the behaviour our children exhibit when they need something but sometimes… we don’t know what to do.

I wondered what I was doing wrong as a parent? Why was our son behaving the way he was and why there was so much difficulty? I studied ‘Conscious Parenting’ and realised there was more to our situation than I could perceive at the time.

My Son was diagnosed with autism and we have come so far now learning how to support him. Our family have more tolerance towards each other, we can now see that each person in our home has a unique voice. We are able to see each other’s point of view and have a far more colourful way of seeing the world, accepting everyone's perspective as valid. In our case (Like any other family), we still have moments of madness (we are human after all), yet we are all far more forgiving and accepting of each other.

I'm much more of a stress-less mum and kinder human being on this planet, because I now come from a place of joy with my family. I now help support other Parents and Teachers who are experiencing blame, shame and guilt about their child's/ students behaviour and help them create the awareness to create truly nourishing environment at home and school.  

How can I help you?

If you want to find out how to discern your children’s need and accommodate them in a way that supports you too, I offer heart-centred parent coaching. My clients tell me that they get to a place where they can see where their children are coming from. In doing so they enjoy the time they spend with their children without conflict in a calmer, smoother and more supportive way.

So, if you find yourself:

💗 In emotional chaos

💗 Always putting others ahead of yourself

💗 Not understanding your child’s behaviour

I can show you how to:

💗 How to Self Love and gain self-acceptance as a Parent

💗 The tools to becoming a ‘needs detective’ to find out what the messages are beyond the behaviour.

💗 Tune inwards to find solace and emotional intelligence

Family life is much more spontaneous – there’s much more fun, discovery and play in our daily life.
— J S, Auckland
We were thrilled to have the opportunity to work with Kylie as our parenting coach. She has a wonderful, natural ability to interpret our complicated family dynamics and come up with practical solutions for us to move towards a more positive, conscious style of parenting. The holistic approach she takes, working through all the experiences that have led us to this point in our journey, has been enlightening and positive for us in so many aspects of life, not just parenting. There has been a huge amount of learning around how to create a connection in our family, and now when we face frustrations we have fantastic tools to work through in a way that encourages that connection. The benefits are also evident in our relationship as husband and wife, as we learn the best way to communicate with one another, and have some perspective on why we react the way we do at times! We can’t recommend Kylie enough, her intuitive and gentle style of coaching has been an enormous blessing to our family, and we are looking forward to continuing our parenting and family journey of growth alongside her.
— Mere, Wellington
A big breakthrough has been pausing and listening to our child’s expression of their needs – and also our own.
— N C, Auckland
Working with Kylie has been both fun and hugely educational. I use to think that we could just wing it through and things would work out and although this is true to a point Kylie has really helped my wife and I unlock a whole heap of skills and tricks to help us on our parenting journey. Our weekly chats to Kylie are more like friends catching up than a “study” session. Not only have the sessions helped with our parenting but have also been beneficial for our marriage as it has allowed my wife and I to see things from each others perspective.
— Martin, Wellington
Conscious parenting is a new paradign shift in the way we look at our roles as parents. It’s turning the spot light away from fixing the child and managing the child, obsession with all things that have to do with the child and the child centric approach and really focusing on the evolution of the parent.
— Dr Shefali Tsabary