Kia Ora, I'm Kylie a Certified Parent Coach, and Teacher Wellbeing Coach. I am also mum of three, I'm hugely passionate about children, families and teachers…
I always felt incredibly loved and supported as a child, leaving home and going out into the world – I was shocked to see how unsupportive some people could be! I felt inspired to really create the best environment that I could at home.
Having one child with ASD and one with Dyslexia I remember I used to feel like I was being judged by others for how my children behaved. Sometimes we are just too close to see what’s really happening in our own families. We all know the behaviour our children exhibit when they need something but sometimes… we don’t know what to do.
I wondered what I was doing wrong as a parent? Why was our son behaving the way he was and why there was so much difficulty? I studied ‘Conscious Parenting’ and realised there was more to our situation than I could perceive at the time.
My Son was diagnosed with autism and we have come so far now learning how to support him. Our family have more tolerance towards each other, we can now see that each person in our home has a unique voice. We are able to see each other’s point of view and have a far more colourful way of seeing the world, accepting everyone's perspective as valid. In our case (Like any other family), we still have moments of madness (we are human after all), yet we are all far more forgiving and accepting of each other.
I'm much more of a stress-less mum and kinder human being on this planet, because I now come from a place of joy with my family. I now help support other Parents and Teachers who are experiencing blame, shame and guilt about their child's/ students behaviour and help them create the awareness to create truly nourishing environment at home and school.
How can I help you?
If you want to find out how to discern your children’s need and accommodate them in a way that supports you too, I offer heart-centred parent coaching. My clients tell me that they get to a place where they can see where their children are coming from. In doing so they enjoy the time they spend with their children without conflict in a calmer, smoother and more supportive way.
So, if you find yourself:
💗 In emotional chaos
💗 Always putting others ahead of yourself
💗 Not understanding your child’s behaviour
I can show you how to:
💗 How to Self Love and gain self-acceptance as a Parent
💗 The tools to becoming a ‘needs detective’ to find out what the messages are beyond the behaviour.
💗 Tune inwards to find solace and emotional intelligence